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We often hear that time heals all wounds, but the truth is that some scars remain as permanent landmarks of our journey. Han Kang’s poignant words remind us that certain memories don't fade; instead, they become the core of who we are after the storms of life have stripped everything else away. Acknowledging this isn't a sign of defeat, but an act of profound honesty. When we admit that some parts of us are broken, we stop fighting an impossible battle and begin the real work of coexistence with our ghosts. The life advice hidden within this melancholy is the power of self-awareness. To realize that you may not be a 'safe person'—that you carry trauma or shadows—is actually the first step toward becoming one. By owning our darkness, we gain the agency to manage it, ensuring that our past pain doesn't dictate our future kindness. There is a quiet, resilient strength in standing in the dim light and deciding to keep moving forward anyway. Ultimately, this is a reminder that you are not alone in your solitude. Many of us are walking through a world where the lights are flickering, carrying memories that refuse to dim. In this shared vulnerability, we find a deeper, more authentic connection. Your scars do not make you dangerous; they make you human, and in that humanity lies the possibility of a different kind of healing—one that doesn't erase the past, but integrates it into a stronger, more empathetic version of yourself.