
“I suppose it’s not a social norm, and not a manly thing to do — to feel, discuss feelings. So that’s what I’m giving the finger to. Social norms and stuff…what good are social norms, really? I think all they do is project a limited and harmful image of people. It thus impedes a broader social acceptance of what someone, or a group of people, might actually be like.”
— Jess C Scott
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“I suppose it’s not a social norm, and not a manly thing to do — to feel, discuss feelings. So that’s what I’m giving the finger to. Social norms and stuff…what good are social norms, really? I think all they do is project a limited and harmful image of people. It thus impedes a broader social acceptance of what someone, or a group of people, might actually be like.” — Jess C Scott. It's time to break free from the emotional boxes society tries to put us in. How are you choosing authenticity and vulnerability in your life today? Let's chat in the comments! 👇✨
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We are often handed an invisible script the moment we enter this world—a rigid set of rules dictating how we should act, what we should feel, and who we are allowed to become. For many, especially men, this means burying emotions beneath a facade of stoicism, fearing that vulnerability is a weakness. But true courage doesn't lie in hiding our pain; it lives in the radical act of tearing up that script and daring to feel deeply. When we give ourselves permission to acknowledge our inner world, we reclaim our humanity and step out of the shadows of societal expectations. Jess C Scott’s poignant words serve as a powerful reminder that social norms are often cages masquerading as comfort. They shrink the vast, beautiful spectrum of the human experience into a narrow, acceptable mold, robbing us of authentic connection. By choosing to embrace our feelings and speak our truth, we not only heal ourselves, but we also pave the way for a more compassionate world. Let this be your gentle reminder to break the mold, honor your heart, and live life unapologetically as your true, beautifully complex self.
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