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In our relentless pursuit of peace and happiness, we often wish away the heavy nights, hoping for unbroken, dreamless sleep. Yet, Joseph Heller’s poignant reflection reminds us that even our most turbulent dreams—the anxious nights, the strange visions, and the lingering sorrows—are proof of a deeply lived human experience. To feel nothing at all in the quiet dark is a profound emptiness; our minds, even when processing fear or regret, are still actively fighting, processing, and holding onto the raw fabric of our existence. Embracing life means accepting the entire spectrum of our inner world, from the sweetest aspirations to the most unsettling nightmares. When we wish away the difficult chapters of our minds, we risk numbing ourselves to the very depth that makes us human. True resilience isn't found in a painless existence, but in the courage to face whatever visits us in the shadows, knowing that even our bad dreams are a testament to a heart that refuses to stop feeling.