About this quote

We often carry the heavy burden of thinking that asking for help is a sign of weakness or an inconvenience to others. We stay silent, retreating into ourselves to avoid being a 'burden,' when in reality, we are only starving our relationships of the intimacy that comes through mutual support. Sue Monk Kidd reminds us that there is a graceful, intentional way to navigate our needs without fear or friction. True emotional intelligence lies in creating a bridge rather than a barrier. When we provide a clear, gentle path for others to meet our needs—whether it's a specific way to offer comfort or a simple task to help ease our load—we are actually giving them a gift. We are removing the guesswork and replacing it with the joy of being able to show up effectively. By making it easy for others to love and support us, we foster deeper, more resilient, and more meaningful connections.