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In a world where we are often told to seek constant happiness, Victoria Schwab reminds us of a profound, overlooked truth: pain is not a sign of failure, but a badge of existence. Whether we feel like the hero of our own story or a misunderstood outsider—a 'monster' in the eyes of others—the experience of hurting is the most universal thread that binds us all. To feel pain is to acknowledge that you are present, that you have dared to care, and that you are brave enough to engage with a world that is as cruel as it is beautiful. True resilience isn't about avoiding the ache, but about understanding that the capacity to suffer is inextricably linked to the capacity to love and thrive. When we stop fighting the discomfort and instead accept it as a natural part of the human experience, we find a deeper sense of peace. By embracing our scars, we transform our suffering into strength, realizing that the very things that hurt us are often the things that make us feel most alive. Let your vulnerability be your power; after all, the heart only breaks because it was full to begin with.